mamamantis:

Tamala Jones comes out… (x)

no

nnnnnnnoooooo

no

okay my understanding of this after watching the video is that this person is straight and the campaign is aimed at straight people (encouraging them to “come out in support” of the lgbt community)

no no no no no nO NO NO

coming out is OURS

coming out, as a phrase and an action, BELONGS TO QUEER PEOPLE

and to equate an ongoing struggle (bc as i like to say, coming out is a process, not an event) like this that hold so much meaning and pain and joy for us to an ALLY fucking admitting that they don’t hate us???????? is wrong and gross and appropriative and it makes me angry and uncomfortable

you don’t fucking “come out of the closet” as an ally

WE COME OUT OF THE CLOSET AND WE LOSE OUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS, OUR JOBS, OUR LIVES

cishets do not know what “coming out” is and they will never, ever understand

this campaign is shit

I don’t understand why people don’t understand how hard it is to come out. 

As a cis girl I will never understand how hard it is to come out as trans* and I don’t claim to! 

If I was straight I wouldn’t try to say I get how hard it is come out as queer either! 

I feel like they don’t get what it’s like to not only risk you family, friends, social acceptance but safety! And then to have to do it over and over and over again.  

Honestly how hard is it to “come out” and say “I think everyone should have equal rights but that’s just me”

Just think about the phrase “in the closet” think about literally LIVING in a closet. 

That’s how it feels. 

(Source: rickcastallion)


COME FOLKS! 


Come on kids! 


Come join us


COME ONE GUYS! WE’RE PICKING PEOEPLE SOON!


guys.

Guys.

Come on guys.



I’m starting youtube channel called queer deal. 

GO AUDITION!

Did you like the video, with the 90’s sitcom music. But it’s not like Full House sitcom. It’s hip. Like the Fresh prince type sitcom. 

Day 30 - Anything LGBT you’d like to end this on :]

Girls are really good at kissing

Day 29 - SHOUT SOMETHING! IT CAN BE HAPPY AND ABOUT PRIDE OR ABOUT WHY YOU HATE HOMOPHOBIA!

AHHHHHH I’M KINDA SLEEPY BUT I DON’T FEEL LIKE GOING TO BED EVEN THOUGH I’M ALREADY IN BED AND JUST NEED TO TAKE MY JEANS OFF AND WHATEVER AHHHHHHHHHHH

Day 28 - Write a letter to someone. It can be a coming out letter or a letter regarding how you hate their homophobia or whatnot. You don’t have to send it.

(This is actually a part of speech I’m giving)

Dear girls,( If you couldn’t of guess it’s a letter to the girls who beat me up)

I will never hate you. I will never hate what you did to me.

But I will feel bad for you. I’ll do this because you’ll never know what love is. If you can’t even let others love how are you going to love anyone yourselves? 

For a good amount of time I did what everyone thinks happens. I blame myself. I just  question very molecule of my being. And asking why I am the way I am. Why I was something so ugly that people could do this to me. So wrong that I could be seen as less then human. 

But that didn’t last. Because I took in all the hate you gave me. I let it soak up every pore in my body. And I turned it in to love. The very thing that caused you to to this. 

And I know when you left that room with my on the floor, still not sure of what I did you thought you won. You thought I’ve learned how wrong I was. But I can promise you that you didn’t.

 Because no matter how hard you swing

No matter how hard I hit wall

No matter how much of my blood drips

No matter how black and blue my skin is

No matter how hard you make me cry

You’re NOT going to slam the love out of me

You’re NOT going to kick the pride out of me

And you definitely not going to hit gay out of me 

Day 27 - Your favorite LGBT blog/tumblr/site

I’m gonna have to go with my site.

http://girlswholikegirlsinpa.tumblr.com/

Because I can shamelessly promote it again. 

Day 26 - Your favorite gay joke (we all need to laugh at ourselves)

Q. What does a lesbian bring on her first date? A. A removal van with all of her stuff in it.

Day 25 - The LGBT slur you hate most or if you’ve taken back a slur and used it as a definition, ie queer or fag

Fag.

It’s just never hit me well.

Day 24 - The stupidest argument/comment you’ve heard about gay people or an LGBT issue

That gay sex isn’t real sex.

Bro, it’s sex. You’re just mad cause I’m getting more then you.